9 Down 'n Dirty Sex Games
Written on 7:35 PM by ChaoticMedia
This is based on the game we all know. You cozy up together with some soft music, sexy lighting, and take turns telling the truth or taking a dare. Begin with each of you writing out five dares -- anything from trying on a sexy outfit to something naughty like stripping -- on separate pieces of paper. Place them in a bowl. Now take turns asking each other naughty questions such as, "What's the sexiest fantasy you've ever had?" or "What's the most unusual place you've ever wanted to have sex?" If you don't answer, you dip into the pot and select a dare.
#2: Forfeit
This may sound a bit silly, but it's a sexy game if you're in a playful mood. One of you has to correctly guess what the other is miming and pay a forfeit if you get it wrong. For example, she may appear to be miming oral sex but she's actually miming sucking his finger. If he doesn't guess correctly, he has to pay a forfeit -- such as removing an item of clothing or performing a sex act that only pleases her -- forfeiting his own needs. This is a game you can initiate spontaneously, perhaps when you're cuddled up with a glass of wine and simply enjoying some closeness -- it can really turn up the heat.
#3: Wish List
You both think of three sexual things you've always wanted to try and then write them down on separate pieces of paper. These are folded, marked with your initials to identify them, and mixed up. You then take turns to draw out one of the other's wishes, agreeing in advance to at least give it a try.
#4: Strip Poker
Poker's all the rage these days; now make it spicy. The loser bares all, and the winner sees all. If you're not poker fans, you can do this with any card game of your choice. You could even try strip chess, strip Monopoly, whatever. No cheating -- make sure you both know the rules. Once one of you has stripped completely, the lovemaking begins with the winner choosing the position.
#5: I Spy
Not the traditional I Spy -- this is the saucier version. Taking turns, you have to make your lover guess what you've seen. Creativity is the key. You could say, "I spy with my little eye something beginning with 'a.'" Your lover immediately says something spicy like "ass," but you're actually thinking of the "areola" around your nipple. This may get you both laughing as you can use all the sexy slang names for genitalia that you know -- and keep your lover guessing.
# 6: Porn Star
If you have a camcorder, a digital camera, or a Polaroid camera, you could set up a fantasy game in which one of you is the director and the other a budding porn star. Your porn star can start playing to the camera, but, as the director, you're so impressed with the performance that you join in. After filming, relax and enjoy the show. For your peace of mind, erase the videos or destroy the photos afterward, since they've been known to resurface in embarrassing places.
#7: Knock, Knock
One of you knocks on the door and pretends to be a visitor with a purpose, such as a police officer looking for a criminal, a plumber wanting to fix a leak, or a nosy neighbor who's investigating a strange noise. Once inside, you start flirting and getting suggestive. The policeman might say he's got some handcuffs that need testing. Or you might show the plumber where the pipes are, at the same time bending and stretching so he gets an eyeful. He may even lift up your skirt and fondle you. You get the message.
#8: What Is It?
Your partner is lying down blindfolded. You lubricate different parts of your body -- fingers, toes, chin, tip of the nose, genitals, and so on. You then touch her in various places. Your blindfolded partner has to guess what you're touching with her! If she guesses it correctly, she gets to ask for whichever touch she liked most to be repeated. If she guessed wrong, you swap places.
#9 Sex Slave
This is another game to play when you have time to indulge each other. You both have to carry out silly tasks to decide who's the sex slave. For example, you have to try to balance a sex toy, such as a vibrator, on your pubic bone. The one who can balance the device longest wins -- the other becomes the sex slave. Once the sex slave is selected, the master can indulge any whim (within reason, of course!) for the duration. Agree in advance how long the loser will have to be a slave for. One hour? All night? It's up to you.
Psychologist, sex adviser, and life coach Dr. Pam Spurr is an American who presently lives and works in London, England. Famous as a media psychologist in Britain, Dr. Pam has won a Sony award for her radio programs, appears regularly on TV, and has a national advice column. She also writes regularly for women’s magazines as a “sexpert” and life coach. Happily married, she has two children.
Dr. Pam has written two books: Naughty Tricks & Sexy Tips: A Couple’s Guide to Uninhibited Erotic Pleasure and Make Love All Night & Talk to Him in the Morning: Bite-size Tips for Sex & Relationships.
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Cool. But the Porn Star game is pretty dangerous. Just make sure you keep the video in a very safe place.
Gonna be safe about it.